Many women have asked why a man would choose to be a sugar daddy. If they have the financial means and personality to have anything they want, then why not seek out a perfect lifetime mate instead of the short term relationships that come with sugaring. The reasons of sugar daddies are always different, but generally there are two main purposes for choosing the sugar lifestyle.
Connection without attachment
For many wealthy men, the time and commitment it takes to a relationship is difficult to incorporate with their everyday life. They want someone who is available on their own terms to help them as necessary. What they don’t want is someone who needs to know their every move and looks to them to cater to every aspect of their lifestyle. Through sugaring, these men are able to have short term connections that fill their emotional and physical needs without having to worry about long term attachments.
Variety and Excitement
Our society hates to admit it, but there are plenty of individuals in this world who grow bored with the same ‘ole, same ‘ole in their lives. Being a sugar daddy gives men variety and excitement. They might have multiple sugar babies for different aspects of their life. From the staple event partner to the woman who embarks on every adventure with him, being a daddy means that he can have his pick of the litter.
At the end of the day, sugar daddies are just regular men who are seeking what we all want – human connection. Their lives might be too busy for big relationships or they may never want to “settle down” which is why this alternative lifestyle works for them. Being a sugar daddy is just one of the many different relationships dynamics that exists in the world today and is openly embraced by those who enjoy it.